They call me single. I suppose that’s because I am twenty-one, not married, and have lived on my own for nearly four years.

If someone had told me four years ago that I’d be writing an essay supporting courtship, I would have laughed. Heck, if someone told me four months ago I still would have sincerely doubted it.

The critics called it stunning, brilliant, a masterpiece and said you’d be hard-pressed to find a more adventurous and rewarding release this year. They’re right: the album is a masterful blend of innovation, prophecy and obscurity, both musically and lyrically.

Pierce Pettis is best known as the guy who pens tunes for the likes of Garth Brooks. I will always consider him one of the most gifted songwriters of our time, using word and song to describe the mundane and the magical all around us.

Williams’ latest recording displays maturity, depth and creativity alongside a true understanding of the earthiness of everyday life.

It may have simply been boredom that persuaded me to go inside. Or perhaps the slow, southern summer pace of our usually bustling town convinced me I was worthy to enter the gates.

The first time I heard these words, I wasn’t so sure about them. “FEED on HIM in my HEART?” But as I reflected on them I was struck by the simplicity of the metaphor. Like earthly food, I have a desperate need for Christ. I have to be in communion with him.

It’s Hard to Find a Friend unashamedly tackles relevant topics most Christian musicians would prefer avoiding. Bazan’s honest portrayals of faith and life make this album a must-have for Christians and seekers alike.

We must be willing to welcome people to dine with us, both in a spiritual sense and a practical one.

Since I’m off at college, it’s easy to feel distanced from my family. Interaction is sparse; there are no nightly family dinners or movie nights. But what does family really mean to me?